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My Daughter Meghan's Story
BY CAROLYN MACK
My daughter Meghan was diagnosed with Bi-Phenotypic Leukemia at 21 months old. After a 10 month grueling battle with this disease, enduring chemotherapy, radiation, and a cord blood transplant, Meghan lost her battle when she was only 2 1/2 years old. Since that time, I have made it my goal in life to raise awareness and funds to find a cure for childhood cancer. Since Meghan's diagnosis, I have met many other women who have lost their children to leukemia and we have created a tight circle of friends who support one another on our roughest days, birthdays, Angelvesary's, and other dates that seem to stop us in our tracks. As a way to honor her memory, I have a team "Everybody Loves Meghan" that walks in the annual Light the Night walk for the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society where we have raised approximately $60,000. in the past 4 years. It is my hope that a cure is found in my lifetime so no other mother has to endure losing a child.
I have gotten my employer to participate in Jeans Days to raise money as well as adopt families with a child with cancer during the holidays where we buy them gifts for the entire family to help make their holidays a little brighter. The financial burden having a child with cancer puts on many families is overwhelming and if we can help by alleviating some of that burden, we have all done our job and perhaps made a dreadful situation a little less painful.
Well, thru Meghan's illness and now after her death, I have connected with people whose story is sadly similar to mine. There are too many children dying of cancer and I have learned that each one of us has the power to make a difference by raising awareness and of course, the almighty dollar. Connecting with other families devastated by this disease has become my passion and I have met so many wonderful friends along my daughter's journey and even now, thru my involvement with The Leukemia Society, I meet new friends and families all the time. Some of them are just starting out in their journey, and some, like me, have faced the unimaginable. Letting them know they are not alone and being there when they are having a hard time is the best I can do.
Hopefully letting families know they are not alone. Also letting others out there know that there are those of us out here who have lost a child too and we continue to fight in their honor and in an effort to make sure no other family has to hear the words "your child has cancer". Hopefully we will inspire others to join our cause.
 
5 COMMENTS
 
Thank you all for your kind words. If you would like to read more about Meghan and her journey, please visit www.caringbridge.org/fl/meghansjourney
POSTED 8/9/2007  Carolyn Mack
 
Carol
I cried as I read your story.
For 7 years I have been team captain for LTN.
I lost the founder of the soup kitchen to which I am volunteer coordinator. She was a nun Sr Fran who inspired every life she touched.She lost her long and painful battle to leukemia 4 years ago.
You, your daughter and Sr Fran are an inspiration to us all.
Doreen Holmes (RI)
POSTED 8/7/2007  Doreen Holmes
 
Dear Carolyn - My name is Sue Denihan, Sheree Fox sent me an email with Meghan's story. I am a member of Team-In-Training with the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society raising money for research and training for a marathon in October. I am so sorry for your loss. Your involvement with the Leukemia Society and fundraising efforts are amazing and inspiring. You have improved the quality of life of patients and their families and provided the support and caring to those who need it most. I will think of Meghan and carry her story with me as I train and get ready for my marathon in October. You truly are an inspriation! I encourage everyone who reads Meghans story to get involved with Light the Night in your City. God Bless.
POSTED 8/6/2007  Suzanne Denihan
 
Carol:
You are truly an inspiration to everyone that you have ever met. I admire your courageous determination to make such an incredible difference for others who are going through your similar situation. It is so absolutely unselfish of you to have to relive your horrific experience everyday making a huge impact on others going through what you have already endured! You are so determined and so incredible! You truly are an amazing woman. Keep up the great work!!!
Best Regards,
Ali
POSTED 8/3/2007  ALICE CACERES
 
I'm so proud of you and proud to be your friend!
You truly are a woman to be honored!
Keep kicking forward!
POSTED 8/2/2007  Ann Lang
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